Today I reached out to an attorney that a friend used for his divorce and am waiting for a response. It'll just be a consultation to make sure I'm prepared for whatever is to come. I plan on discussing custody concerns for D4, splitting finances, options for our house in the event of a divorce (buy outs, selling, renting, etc), child support/alimony info and what I should be doing now to make sure I'm protected.
That's a lot of things for a consultation, but is there anything else I should be discussing? I don't know much about the actual process for divorce and only have one friend who was in a similar situation so I'll lean on his advice as well. Never thought I'd have to think about this stuff so it's a bit of an unknown for me.