It seems somewhat common from reading this forum for folks to waiver on that.
I'll give you credit - you've said this before and I'm probably guilty of it myself (to waver on being resolutely out on the MR).
Originally Posted by BL42
I can't recall your status. Sounds like limbo? Is she talking about separation / D? Any positive signs?
No talk of separation or D lately at all. For the record, my W is finishing up her degree in a different field and is set to make a good bit more money once that happens, potentially being able to afford a new place for herself. That may not happen until next summer, and likely not a full-blown house at that.
Originally Posted by BL42
Only you can answer that. If you're resolved to save your marriage you're going to have to be extremely patient.
Yes, that seems to be the conventional wisdom. So if she doesn't make her own move at some point, I'll have to decide how long I want to let her eat cake while not having enough of a "relationship" for my satisfaction. Also, do I want to break up the kids' family dynamic myself?
Originally Posted by Doug54
LH, maybe I should get myself into an intoxicating EA like you had to maybe match whatever W had or has going on.
Originally Posted by BL42
Hopefully you're kidding. That is a terrible idea, and would certainly not help your marriage.
Yeah, that was a joke...borne out of slight frustration.
