I agree to focus on self. I have and am. From day 1 of BD, I didn't know about MLC. I knew something was seriously wrong. I gave him space. I give him space. He left. I have no idea where he's at nor have I asked.
I have watched his unresolves circle him and watched him restructure his trauma.
I didn't understand what was going on. I watched helplessly. I watched him go into the tunnel. I watched it suck him in before my eyes. I didn't know what was going on. I could have allotted him empathy. I didn't. I didn't know what I was watching.
I am not sure how else to say I am focused and focusing on myself. I am not sure how else to say this to everyone here.
I am here for understanding what my h is going through in Withdrawal or Late withdrawal. I am not here to talk about myself that is what my IC and friends are for.
I am not watching where he is. I would like to understand it so I can communicate with him where he is at when we communicate. I came here hoping to understand what he is going through for empathy. I know I can't stop it. I can get information to communicate effectively, hoping.
If I had understood when he was going into the tunnel, I would have been able to communicate with him on that platform.
I was and still am hoping someone can fill me in on what happens in Late Withdrawal.
I am not here to talk about myself. I have a great support group for that and they are doing a great job. I leveled up in my life since then and am moving to level up AGAIN. Moving forward.
All I am asking is for someone to help me understand what he is going through.
IF NO ONE HERE CAN EXPLAIN Withdrawal and LATE STAGE WITHDRAWAL, then maybe someone can say, we don't know specifics about what they are going through. We only talk about ourselves, because that is what I am getting.
Focus on you. Do you. Let's talk about you.
If you guys do not know, maybe someone can say that and I will be oh, ok. Thanks.
