I’m not saying anger isn’t normal in all of this but I think I’m misunderstanding what you’re saying. You said she “set up a dinner” then you say she sent a card with a gift card in it. So did she actually make plans/arrangements for you for a meal or did she just send you the gift card? I’ll be honest, one of those would absolutely get my dander up big time, but the other would just be like ok, whatever. I’d be HOT if my XH set something up for me. On the other hand if he sent me a gift card, while I’d find it odd, I’d just say thanks and move on. Again, not saying anger isn’t normal. Situational maybe?
Me 52, H53 Bomb drop 9/29/2014 Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014 Marriage #2 12/31/2019 5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships) 6 grandkids
