Boundary's after big D

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Happy birthday Mach40! Hope you have a wonderful time meeting up with your daughters.

My guess, and it's just that, is that ExW is probably trying to be "nice" - or maybe out of habit for all those years - not thinking of the pain/anger/emotions it stirs up in you. I'd just say "thank you" and let it be.

And, yes...it's very normal to feel anger related to all this.