Okay! It's time for all to step back and take a deep breath. Agree to disagree and move on. This is a public forum that not only do the members see what is posted, but the entire world can read them.
Please, please step back and just breathe. If posters are not happy with what is being posted, then take a break from this thread and/or forum and do something else. It's better to step back then to continue down this rabbit hole and something may be said that can't be taken back. Many of you are friends on other forums and have been for some time and I don't want to see the friendship break up over postings here.
There are a lot of posters out there that need our help.
Sit quietly, the answers will reveal themselves when you least expect them to. The past is gone, the present is a gift and you need to focus on today, allow the future to reveal itself when it is ready.