Originally Posted by BL42
I'm surprised to see LH and Ginger who used to seem teasing and flirty have turned more bickering & personal...in OB's thread and hers. Not sure why.
Lol. Where have you guys been for the last 4 years. This is standard operating procedure. Nothing to see here.

Originally Posted by BL42
On the other hand, while you may have found DnJ's post on your thread condescending and judgmental, I don't think he was out of bounds raising the question of you dating a man who was not yet divorced.
Come on BL. I know this is a DB site but you have to know the difference between an actual affair and someone dating before divorce. The issue wasn't that dude was married the issue was that G thought he was going to go from being on Tinder while married, divorce and than get into a relationship with her.

Originally Posted by BL42
It's fair to wonder if he had a W back home hoping to DB her marriage
Is it really?

Originally Posted by BL42
Plus it caused you personal pain when the relationship didn't work out.
This 1000%

Originally Posted by BL42
I just noticed DnJ's two dozen plus threads are gone. It appears he may have bowed out of the forum.
Yeah I highly doubt a post from G pushed him off the board. My guess would be more he got some closure at the wedding that his ex isn't coming back and it's time to move forward. Some people get stuck on this board and it is better to move on after a certain amount of time.
Originally Posted by BL42
Just as it would be if you do so as well Ginger...or anyone else.
LOL. G has quit this board more times than she has quit OLDing and more times than DNJ has said "feelings are fleeting". She ain't going no where.

Originally Posted by BL42
Why doesn't everyone who reads this comment show them some support, even if it's just taking two minutes to post a quick "hang in there, you'll get through this"?
Hang in there, you'll get through this.