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[bttrfly]

You’re angry at DnJ because he pointed out that legally the hockey guy was still married and that you broke your own rule and that you may want to check that. You are the one who said he attacked you and your morals. That’s been pointed out to you before and you ignored it in favor of attacking him, not disagreeing. You’re angry because in violating your own rule you got hurt, and I think it’s you who are judging yourself but you won’t own that. D is just a convenient target.

Regardless of that, what really went beyond the pale for me personally is you coming onto this side of the board and gloating. Not a great look, G..You are definitely better than that. This isn’t Mean Girls the DB version.

You’ve been here a very long time. My guess is you got a free pass for a long time on a lot of potential 2x4”s because of your sitch. But it’s many years later and you’re still playing the victim card a lot of the time, or just ignoring posts that ask you to take a harder look at things, and now attacking people under the guise of disagreeing.

Forget whether or not D is a good guy. This isn’t about DnJ nor is it about LH. This is about you. I’m sure if you thought about it you’d realize there were many other ways you could have disagreed that would have left you in a better light. I’m frankly shocked by how you’ve handled yourself the past couple of weeks and wonder are you really ok? Because it doesn’t seem that you are.

Also there is the very real responsibility we all have to the newbies who may be reading and afraid to post. We owe it to each other to be as kind as possible and also to be direct in as kind a way as possible while tossing 2x4s.