Out of curiosity, what is the difference between labeling exclusive and being exclusive. What changes so much if you use the word or don’t use the word? BTW, I wasn’t the one who labeled it. And it was literally the only time in years this has happened that I’ve said it or have been exclusive with anyone.
And I violated a rule I had sent once. I dated a guy who wasn’t legally divorced. It was painful, but it was once.
You keep portraying me as repeat offenders of the situations when I’ve done it once. I haven’t dated anyone just separated ever. Just this once. Don’t plan on doing it again. So “keep” doing these things when I’ve done it once seems a bit of a stretch
Look G like you said there is no right in wrong in the dating world. If you want to go on 3 or 4 dates a week in the beginning, label it and have deep intimate convos that is your call. I am just asking when is the last time you kept it light, wasn't so available and just got to know someone slowly?
The frustrating part is you know these things are not right. You call CW on it all the time. But for some reason when you do it every excuse in the book comes out.
As for the Bent thread I went back and read it today and you attacked me because I encouraged him to see both girls until he developed feelings for girl number 2.