Once in a while I like to show her I love her and appreciate her, so, while she is let’s say washing dishes, I will come up behind her and put my arms around her and kiss her on the cheek. She will either get annoyed or tell me she is busy not right now.
To piggy back off what Ginger said unless her LL is physical touch this means nothing to her. She sees it as all about you trying to get a piece of a$$.
Originally Posted by Wolfman
I even ask how can I help take some of the burden off? She would just say she doesn’t have time and how tired she is all the time. Then I asked when is there us time? She responded I don’t know.
Don't ask. Lead. Take charge.
Originally Posted by Wolfman
So Mach, I do explain what she does and how it makes me feel, it doesn’t change anything.
Sounds like she doesn't care. I have a lot of friends in your boat who do nothing hoping things will change. They usually don't change on there own.
For a relationship to be successful both people need to be willing to blow it up on occasion, argue it out and be prepared to walk if a compromise can't be reached. That takes a lot of strength and self-confidence. For more often people stuff it down and pave over it and eventually you're sitting on a volcano that's ready to blow. This typically takes many years but you somehow managed to get there in a couple Wolf.
