LH, I can't help but wonder if the difference in our situations (other than that mine is still evolving and yours played out years ago) is that my W may well not have formally made up her mind to bolt - yet, but may still be EA'ing...
If she is still EAing zero percent chance she recommits to the marriage.
Originally Posted by Doug54
whereas your W had her mind made up but wasn't in an affair at that point.
It is not in my story but I found out a couple years ago she was having an A when she filed.
Originally Posted by Doug54
With much cake being eaten all around.
Not much you can do about not serving cake on a platter when you are trying to reconcile and don't know if she is in an affair.
