Considering my parents divorced when I was young, and my bio-dad wasn’t really in my life, it could have impacted me in ways I don’t fully understand. I did have an amazing step-dad, but he didn’t come into my life until I was a pre-teen. We also moved around a lot when I was younger. I used to really feel that the way I grew up gave me grit and allowed me to fit in anywhere. But now that I’m older and after what I have gone through, I wonder if there is still some unresolved things from my past that I need to work through. I’ve brought up this with my IC as well.


Me 52, H 56
T10 M7, 2nd MR for both
2 Step Sons (19 and 21)
BD: Fall 2020
D finalized: July 2022
XH Married AP soon after D day.