BL, yeah, I think she just doesn’t want to deal with it. If things feel fine and normal it’s better to ignore it I imagine. And she only deals every other weekend and one night a week. And that one night a week is dinner, maybe playing a card game and bed. If she was there more often I think it would bother her more.
We were driving to and from the dentist yesterday and chatting. We began talking about my new job. She said to me “dad was kind of upset you didn’t tell dad about your promotion personally” I told her when she was on vacation with him and I figured she would tell him. She did and another time he came on FaceTime to congratulate me. Apparent he also mentioned how he told me personally when he became Sargent .
I dunno, he is just not the person I want to tell my good/bad news to. He hasn’t been that person for quite some time now
