Originally Posted by PeterB
I told her.
Why are you telling her anything? You are talking way to much. STFU is the rule right now. You are listening and understanding her. That is it.

Originally Posted by PeterB
She went off the rails
Listen. Understand her emotions. You are strong and can handle her "scary" emotions.

Originally Posted by PeterB
"you have treated me poorly"
"I am sorry. That was not my intention."

If a response is required: "I understand you feel that way" works for these. Do not over use this phrase.
Originally Posted by PeterB
", "it's all you", "i have done nothing wrong", "you are not owning up to your problems"
Can you come up with a good response?

"What is best for my kids is best for me"
Amor Fati
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