Originally Posted by LH19
Peter I would suggest you double down on GAL right now.

Will do. I have a solo travel coming up and really pumped up for it.

If you engage in a relationship with her again it should only be under the conditions that:

Originally Posted by LH19
1) She sees you as someone of extremely high value

She does not. Far from it. She is probably only thinking how I can be of some use to her. At this time I am just an object of her angst. She slept poorly, she got angry, she screamed at me - I am blamed for everything and then it spirals into more vitriol.

Originally Posted by LH19
3) She's willing to work to win you

She is not willing to. I told her that if she is interested in R, she will also have to work on herself too. She went off the rails - "what have I done?", "it's all you", "you have treated me poorly", "i have done nothing wrong", "you are not owning up to your problems" etc.