I'd warn you that IF she did get dumped it doesn't necessarily mean she wants to reconcile. My ExW hand OM2 lined up very quickly after things ended with OM1...before she even moved out. So as hard as it is don't focus on OM or bank on a breakup between them the catalyst to R. Obviously better if they broke up than not, but guard your expectations.
Yeah I am not assuming that. It's just that she said things that indirectly meant she wants to talk about a repair. For example, she told me in a huff that I really need to improve myself if I want to repair the relationship. When she said she wanted to talk I was pretty sure she would use it as an excuse to launch at me, snap at everything I say and blatantly twist my words, something like, I say "I meant horse", response: "So you meant window. That is why I don't trust you one bit". That is exactly what happened btw. I had initially said I don't want to talk because you are not ready. She got crazy angry at that. I gave an inch and said okay we can have a discussion. Then she used that discussion to run a road roller on me (went badly from first sentence itself). It does not matter what I say - the response is always nasty. It's like pushing me into a trap.
Originally Posted by BL42
Also...you're speculating a lot. You have a "strong feeling that she got dumped by OM",
It is speculation, but quite likely the truth.
Originally Posted by BL42
If she's still being nasty to you to me that doesn't sound like a sign she wants to R.
Yes I fully agree. And even if she wants to somewhere deep in her mind, the nastiness will definitely fail any efforts towards R.
