"Cuffing season"? No, not really. I'm far from wanting a new relationship yet. But that does make someone like Spa Guy look more attractive at the moment - someone who is already a known, if erratic, quantity. Someone who would only be available for an occasional weekend of fun, but who also won't expect anything from me or make any demands on me. Guaranteed good sex. It's been almost a year without sex and I do miss that physical intimacy with someone.
I'm too busy the next couple months to even contemplate visiting him anyway, so if he did extend an invitation, he would have to wait a bit. It's a 4-5 hour drive to where I think he lives now, depending on traffic, and would take up a whole 3 day weekend to be worth it. (Although still much easier than the 11 hours I used to drive to visit my first post-divorce boyfriend!!!)
(And why wouldn't he visit me, you ask? Aside from the awkwardness of my eldest son living with me, and Spa Guy's preference for his own fastidious digs, I'm not sure he could comfortably sleep at my house in my queen bed. He's 6'5", broad shouldered, muscular - fit but just BIG. His king bed just fit the two of us. To think my exH and I shared a little full mattress for most of our married life!)
