Yeah, I’ve read the odds of success for their type of MR. It happens to be slightly higher considering they knew each other and dated in the past, but it’s still not good. I do believe it will eventually fail, or they will live in misery with each other longer term. Unless I really didn’t know my XH at all, I really do not get how they fit together. Geez, he’s an athiest and she’s super religious. So that alone would cause conflict.
I logically realize I am lucky to be away from my XH. But I can’t help feeling the feelings I’ve been having…knowing they are triggers, insecurities, trauma, etc. I am looking forward to the day when news like this doesn’t bother me at all. I’ve come far, but still on that journey.
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Me 52, H 56 T10 M7, 2nd MR for both 2 Step Sons (19 and 21) BD: Fall 2020 D finalized: July 2022 XH Married AP soon after D day.
