So if A guy has a career/job, kids, friends, hobbies, gym etc his time is very limited. How do you know if he is just available when he wants sex or he’s just available when he has free time?
We are all adults here with these responsibilities, right ? No different than me or you. The difference is the ones who compromise or make an effort to spend time vs. the ones who use expect you to fit into their schedule as if I just sit around here not having a life at all. I have a job and half, my kid majority of the time, hobbies, gym, a house to keep up. I don’t expect anyone to just fit into MY free time . If I really want to date, I compromise, make time, shift stuff around.
And the ones who mainly want sex certain my let me know. When you start off with “I have like no time except a Sunday around 4 pm and start talking about sexual preferences you just know