Well I can only speak me for myself but when it gets too deep for me too fast I want to bail. There is plenty of time for that later on. In the beginning I want it light and fun. Hangout, have fun and hook up.
I would definitely stay away from married men on Tinder. There is absolutely zero possibility it will end well.
Trust me, it wasn’t me driving things forward. I can’t even say they went forward. We just really got to know eachother.
If he wasn’t where he was in his life, he wouldn’t bail.
But I have zero attraction with no depth for an extended period of time. That makes me want to bail.
We are all a little different. Some men like you want to bail when you you get to know eachother in a more personal level beyond HHH. Others don’t . Some women want to bail when it’s just HHH with no depth. Others don’t. There is no hard and fast rule with that. People are different