I’m sorry things didn’t work out. I don’t blame you for taking a chance. I think CW makes a fair point that if your life was enriched by the experience then it could be an overall positive. Maybe he’ll circle back and maybe he won’t and maybe you won’t even want him to. For me, it was a good lesson that you CAN show your vulnerable side to someone and feel good about it.

As far as the job situation, you’re awesome and everyone knows it, so go for those opportunities. If you don’t try, the answer will always be no. wink

You’re awesome! Now go do something fun!


Me 52, H53
Bomb drop 9/29/2014
Divorce from XH final 12/17/2014
Marriage #2 12/31/2019
5 adult (step)daughters (3 from XH's first marriage, 2 from current H's previous relationships)
6 grandkids