Boundaries & My At Home MLC’er

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Theia,

IMO, you're over thinking it. If you had left him "a short, simple. ‘I’m away, back in a couple days.’" note at the house that would've been fine, but at this point I wouldn't text him... especially at midnight or 3am. That would clearly be a sign of attachment /weakness he could sense a mile away. Stay strong. IF he reaches out and asks you could respond with that short simple phrase.

Btw...I think it's fantastic you got away and took some time for yourself. Good for you. Try to focus on making you happy these next few days and not thinking about what H is doing or how how's feeling or reacting.