Why do you think 2026? H had already been MLC for 7 years. I have this verified in both my H telling me, out of the fog, the tipping point July 2015 when he began to feel bad, as he put it, and photos from that event onward that show him succumbing to MLC, including a photo of him with black shark eyes and that look on his face May 2019 taken at a uneventful hotel breakfast the morning after a murder mystery event. You believe it’s 11 years for everyone? A read of the healed marriages here and other support forums range between 5-10 years. And no he wasn’t always this way. Not at all. He was a lovely husband for 17 years. As for getting H out. That needs to be his decision. He gets to own that. I’m not going to be accused of kicking him out. It looks like he’s going to be doing it on his own early next month anyway. He’s withdrawing from me. Speaks to his work colleagues fine. Speaks to our family that live here fine. It’s just me he’s avoiding, giving angry looks and having that tone to his voice. (This was him speaking to me. Not me addressing him. And it was once this week.)
I’ll look for your posts. I hope what I will read is a positive outcome. Your healed marriage. 😊
