Originally Posted by Doug54
Hey LH19, do you happen to have any thoughts on what I wrote to Mach1 regarding the Five Love Languages book and W possibly being in the Words of Affirmation category? Do I even bother with that sort of thing or should I just treat W as a lost cause?

I'm not LH, but I have been to a strip club or two...NOT on a moped though (does that count as your motorcycle purchase LH? )

The 5LL is one of those misleading things that I ask people to do.

I always recommend reading it twice....

Once shortly after a poster gets here...

And while they are reading it....most will get those little stings up the back of their neck, of the tings that they missed, or what they did wrong in the marriage.

For me, It was kind of like a "How I F'ed this up" manual...

Those 'stings' are the things that you don't like about yourself, and things that you should probably look into changing about yourself...

DISCLAIMER ....

Do NOT read it with the intention of suddenly speaking her love language....this isn't a 'love dare' post...

Read it for YOU...

First step into how you define what Love means to you....



The second time you read it ???

Get through the first time first.....