Ex refuses to follow court orders for them to see me. The court doesn't seem to care.
Wow--so you have limited access to your kids?! That sounds similar to Wolfman's situation in the "Surviving" forum. If your XW is blocking access, I'd use some home equity to recruit a better attorney a.s.a.p. because that's a Divorce 101 issue at least in the US any good attorney can remedy. If your kids don't want to see you, Wolfman arranged therapy sessions, which could be a starting point towards improving your relationship with them and making them more comfortable visiting. The longer this goes on, the more DavidUK seeing his kids less becomes the status quo, which courts recognize.
