PS - Wolf, I don't see you as "playing the martyr" in this situation. You've already acknowledged you rushed into this relationship and could work on some skills. Your GF's immaturity and insecurity is also playing a role. As my MC used to say, you're the one showing up to improve the relationship, and given you have a baby together that's wise. Props. I'm rooting for you to pick 1-2 areas to improve: taking her on more regular dates, listening and validation, gratitude for her contributions, trimming your budget, trimming your chores--and seeing how your life improves! I'd love for your weeks to include a sense of satisfaction, good sex, and contentedness like mine. Peace, and don't wait a month to return.
