Sometime soon, walk up behind her and whisper in her ear....
Name one thing that you would like to have done today, that you totally hate doing, and I will do it , no questions asked....
And then follow it through.....
See if that changes the dynamic a bit....
woman's perspective: you would definitely get my attention if you did this Wolfman. I hope you take Mach's advice and come back to let us know what happened.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver