Mach1 I am trying to be heard, but it’s like my opinion does t matter.
I didn’t mean to get into another relationship so fast. I have realized for a while it was too soon. But I can’t look back, I can only move forward.
I am not looking for excuses, try to explain why I think I have a hard time with the validating. The part I mentioned about not having sisters.
Trust me I know it seems like I am repeating the same old behaviors but I do catch myself a lot before I make those mistakes.
I just let you all know when I make them, then the problems that occur.
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Still more excuses....
The "buts" are your excuse for not doing better....
The "buts" make you an exception to everything proceeding them...
The "buts" keep you stuck in the same behavioral patterns that you allow yourself to have....
And that you know it, and still act on it makes it 10 times worse....
Then you come here, "let us know that you made them", possibly for the attention that you feel you aren't getting elsewhere, because you don't feel validated at home....
