Quote from the current K-drama (talking to someone with a recently failed first love):
1) "You - will never fall in love like that again."
2) "That's supposed to be exciting?"
1) "What's the point of doing it all over again? Opening up your heart and giving someone access to every piece of you? That's not the only way a person can love. You can shun puddles and put out fires at the same time. Love doesn't have to be suffocating. It can be nice and breezy. You'll experience it. Just be patient. "