I have some good book recommendations (reading Codependent No More right now), hit the gym with regularity, am reconnecting with some old friends, take the kids out often, and keep up with sports. Life isn't h3llish, though no one wants to live through the end of a marriage.
How many women do you interact with each day? Do they find you attractive? Exciting? Do you make them laugh? Smile?
I am not looking for answers to the questions above. Just things for you to think about and decide to behave different. Just remember that the rules have changed.
As far as books, I have read the 4 agreements countless times. Each time I get something new from it. I am at a different point in my life and am a different person than I was in the past every time I read it. It is a quick read.
One of my Mantras- "Don't be boring"
Get a hair cut, get a massage, go buy some new clothes, get dressed up, go watch live music and have a great dinner and meet some interesting people. Be so busy you don't even have time to think about the lady that fired you as her husband. If that is not enough, add more things to the todo list.
"What is best for my kids is best for me" Amor Fati Link to quotes: https://www.divorcebusting.com/forums/ubbthreads.php?ubb=showflat&Number=2879712
