Thanks for asking. Ex was caught-out telling lies about the finances, about me and refused to cooperate. Finally a decision had to be made despite ex frustrating the process. I got to keep the home - which ex is furious about.
Ex didn't get her way over the finances and so seems she's taking it out on me by turning the kids against me even more. Ex refuses to follow court orders for them to see me. The court doesn't seem to care.
Ex has been with someone for a couple of years but ex stalks me online with fake profiles, turns up at my home etc. I don't think it's because she wants me back but rather to harass me and try to provoke me - so that then she can claim justification for what she has done. I stay cool as she can own what she has done.
Positives:
I am single so free to meet the right person. I got to keep my home mortgage free. I have a holiday abroad planned. I am fine in my own company. I have been getting out making new friends. I have discovered a lot about myself.
Negatives:
I am single so haven't yet met the right person. Ex is very determined to constantly use the children to try to hurt me. I have very little income. I have no pension.
