Guilt is a weird one. I was taught (not that it stuck) that guilt was ONLY to be considered and acted upon if I had done something wrong. I know there are a lot of woulda, coulda, shouldas after someone is gone. I have zero doubts you did the best you possibly could in any given moment.
Does that mean you always got it right? Nope. What else can we truly ask of ourselves except to do the best we know how?
Quote
I'm pretty sure it's normal, either that or I'm more f'ed up than I thought I was....
Could be both ??
Well, I'm in the camp of it's normal, BUT we need to tread carefully so that we don't beat ourselves to death with a 6x6 we shouldn't even have in our hands. I kinda like the scenario where K takes that beam and clocks you with it when you DON'T laugh, smile and do for you.
Quote
And I've had more ups and downs than a VIP pass at a Motley Crue concert....sigh
Great reference! LMAO
I am good and I can't complain...but sometimes I still do (ah, Joe Walsh). The girls are all growed up and doing well too. We are teaching the doggos to sing (aren't you glad you're not my neighbor??) and they are always a hoot.