Mach, I appreciate your insight and one-liners on the MLC angle. Truth be told, I'm not sure how I'm going to "outlast" it aside from being dug in and unwilling to vacate my own house. I'm starting to resent the heck out of this person (W). And I just re-read the DR chapter on MLC today, which I've usually found to help center my emotional response in the past.
So what is it that YOU want ??
What do YOU want to work toward ??
I think that you may be seeing this as she is doing this TO you....
Something deliberate, just to hurt you....
Is she ?
OR could it possible that she is doing this for herself...
To find out who she really is inside...
Good friend of mine always said...
Today is not the day that I quit, maybe tomorrow, but lets see what tomorrow brings...
So, a question.....
You still love her ???
Are you willing to give a couple years of your life to see if there is the possibility of that 50 year anniversary ?
I think that the first question is the most important though....