It’s BS. People want to be “Switzerland friends” and not take sides. Plus you have no idea what kind of lies your ex is telling these people to justify his actions. They can tell the most egregious lies!
Your H really must have been a master gaslighter to have you still questioning yourself in this situation. Get his voice out of your head, will you? You’re an intelligent, competent, successful woman and a loving mom. You deserve better.
Thank you, that means so much Kml!! Appreciate you commenting and your kindness.