Oddly enough, it's helped to read some of the accounts on here, like LH19's foray into online dating (a bit aged at this point since the thread I'm on was pre-Covid) and realize this situation won't be forever. I guess getting back into town and resuming living through the crappiness serves a purpose.
Doug I am glad my Misadventures helps lol. Yep it won't last forever and you will be happy again. You will be mad that you tolerated the BS as long as you did. After all how dare you watch TV alone in the other room? Your W is on a journey of her own that is going to take a really long time to play out. So many people suffer for so long on this board because they are in love with a fantasy. You are going to be just fine.