I don't want to be a father! I'm resenting the baby!"
It’s pretty unforgivable. That being said, there is such a thing as male postpartum depression, and he may have experienced a bit of that as well.
I do think that it’s probably best for him to have bonding time with his child. But I admit to feeling nervous about someone with so much ambivalence being responsible for a baby for the duration of a whole shift of you working. Caring for a baby can exhaust your patience even when you’re thrilled to be a parent.
Can you make alternative plans for urgent childcare? If so, I would.
