Hey my friend. Sorry little G (who isnt so little anymore) is having to deal with this with her father. Not surprised at him at all, sadly. Follow her lead. Take it slow. Have her talk to someone neutral.
As far as you are concerned. GET OUTTA YOUR HEAD!
He could have issues or not. I know people years out of a marriage that still have them.
You have been at this long enough to know deal. You are going in with your eyes wide open.
Just enjoy it. Could you get hurt? Maybe. Could he possibly be a great match? Also, maybe. Time will tell.
Life is short. Just enjoy. Watch your heart some..not too much that you dont let him in. Just be you. Dont get hung up on him too early. Take it slow...but have some fun!!!
I am trying out some new thoughts in trying to get unstuck...yet again. I am telling myself..what's the worse that could happen? I get hurt. I fail. I lost out. None of which is life threatening.
