you can expect your W to throw tantrums, it may even seem you are dealing with a 7 year child whos favorite toy has been taken away from him. Prepare for all sort of erratic behaviour, you are in for a ride, trust me.
All of us here are speaking from experience and our stories combined would make an awesome scenario bundle for the Tlilight zone series.
You truly would not believe all the stories we've encountered, frankly I would have not believed it either, had I not gone through it myself.
Brace yourself, the storm is upon you. Be firm, be stron, be a man's man. Take care of yourself, your healthe, phsical and emotional, take care of your children, they will be needing you now more than ever and take care of your job/career. Do not go arouund telling your story to every one, have one or 2 of your closest friends for emotional support.
Read and reread Sandy's rules daily and live them.
Thanks, Vapo. Unfortunately for me, I'm finding myself a tad caught up in the overanalysis machine again. It's not as bad as it was a couple months ago, but now I'm dealing with thoughts that W is ramping up a full-court press trying to get me to graciously duck out and start a separation, trial or otherwise. Things seem to have a more volatile feel. The storm is upon me, indeed.
