And KML, yea, I said that. I preemptively tried to make sure it stays where it needs to stay for him, because the “stats” say he needs that and it couldn’t work otherwise.
I don't think its a "stats" thing at all.
You had your rules because you are very wise. Like a one eyed owl in a tree.
You have broken them and now have to justify it.
We have seen this a million times on the board.
I am sure your EXH's current W tried to justify how she would be different. She was wrong....
Only time will tell....if you will meet a similar fate
