Ex came by yesterday to drop off stuff from the old place. He's moving about 20 minutes away as there is nothing affordable in my area. He is hoping to move back here (some of his family lives around here as well and is a really beautiful area) But obviously not with me of course.

He did ask about the divorce and custody agreement. When he initially said he didn't want to be married anymore it was partially because he was starting to resent the baby and needed to make a decision for himself. He wanted no custody and didn't want to have to watch him when I needed to run into the hospital. Now he is amenable to babysitting when I have call weekends. He did say that his lawyer flagged it as odd that I requested full physical and legal custody as usually only people who are unreliable have no legal custody. He asked me why I requested all of it but that he wouldn't fight me on it.

I told him it's because I couldn't trust him - reminded him of what he said to me about having our son and him not wanting to be a parent. He said he is now babysitting when he said he wouldn't initially and I said that's very nice but you change what you say and I don't know what you'll say in the future. It's also now dawning on me just how bad of a situation it had been being together with what he would say and do. He thanked me for being honest and said that he wasn't going to fight me on the custody agreement. I reminded him I have no desire to keep my baby from him and I would love for him to be involved.

So, weird day.