Most here would advise it is NOT wise to request regular meet ups. In fact, you should di the opposite - be less available, be mysterious, act happy and cheerful like you're interested in the prospect of your newfound freedom. Make him wonder if HE is going to lose YOU.
I'm on the road but will respond more later. Hopefully others will chime in.
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21