it sounds like there's a boatload of people out there who are mighty careless about where they dispose of prophylactics in nesting situations. How hard would it be to put that crap in a plastic bag and toss it in a McDonalds or 7-11 trashcan?
Originally Posted by BL42
Or they WANT you to see
Maybe! For the family friends, I didn’t perceive any malice—she believed she’d freed herself from the relationship ethically (filing for divorce, separating) after trying to resolve issues in MC and was living her best life. How an ex felt about the way she conducted her life was no longer her primary concern, although I’d like to believe if she knew that she’d once left a used condom on top of the trash bin and subsequently he presumably began snooping for them she would have made adjustments. She seemed to get the rest on-point: he never complained of sex toys, lingerie, leftover food, scents on the bedding, extra wine glasses in the sink, or gifts like flowers and chocolates. I imagine it’s hard to hide all traces of an active love life when nesting. It's a difficult scenario for those still attached.
