What are some of the other reasons there's such an outcry against nesting? I mean, I get the main one, but it would seem like if you could agree on a "no sex with others rule" that it would at least get both parents into the house on a rotation.
You have a lot to learn, and you need to do it quickly. The rules have changed. She has lost attraction for you.
Do your research on attraction and take a good hard look at your behavior and make as many positive changes as you can as quickly as you can. You do this not to win her back, but rather to become a better version of yourself for you.
I have only read the last few of your posts, but it really doesn't matter. Focus on you and your own self improvement. Everything that works is counter-intuitive.
