[quote=Doug54]That train is leaving the station on my end (W has not only a consultation for breast augmentation set, but an appointment date in a few months as well). I'm pretty sure she has gotten a Care Credit account in her name only, but at the moment we still have a joint checking account.
Did you consult a L yet? Get the information you need to reassure and protect yourself on the financial front.
^^This!
Sorry you are here Doug!! Worst time of my life. You are getting good advice. I can relate to the uneasiness and “dilly dally” limbo you are in.
IMO you asap need to talk to an L, DO NOT have sex, find your strong consistent path and make yourself unavailable.
Strong and consistent for me was a routine of IC, heavy gym workouts, work, dinner and activities with friends, DIY on house (in particular the kids rooms).
Happy to answer any questions you may have. Also, my thread may be interesting to you, if you have the time.
Last edited by Mumin; 07/21/2207:59 AM.
Me: 34 Stbxw: 30 D:5 D:3 Mini bd: May/June 2019 Married: Aug 2019 BD: 6th Dec 2019 OM Confirmed: Feb 2020 March 2020: I filed for D Waiting for D to be finalized and W to move out end of January 2021
