Don’t have much time right now, but I disagree heavily Don. She’s a kid, not an adult and she doesn’t need to be the one to expose her fathers affair. I support her in her decision fully right now. And if she wanted to tell him, I would support her in that too. I am absolutely not teaching her how to do the wrong thing . Her father is doing that. I am here to show her how her father is doing is the wrong thing, but as a CHILD it is not her burden to expose it. Adult stuff should not be on her shoulders. Because she isn’t an adult. I fully trust she is making the decision she needs to for herself right now. And it has nothing to do with me or how I feel about it
I don’t always make the wisest decisions in the dating world, but when it comes to parenting I absolutely make sure I am doing what I truly is in the best interest of my child and I trust myself in that area. I care about this with my whole heart, unlike dating .
This is an awful spot for all of us really. But In the end, it’s about my daughter. And I hate like anything that she has to be the one to find out about it.
