My question is, how do I bring it up again or how do I make him understand the gravity of what he has done without upsetting him but also without being a doormat?
I know the feeling! Would love to tell off the STBX but appreciate his help when needed. Sorry we're in the same boat.
I just ask myself: Is it worth losing the help around the house to call him out on his terrible behavior? If not, just put up with him for now until you can come up with plan B i'm afraid.
Thanks, Newborn. Yes, it appears that I just have to put up with it.
