If I were to pre-emptively say in the MC session that I'm tired of it, I'm done, I'm getting a separation agreement drawn up, separating the checking account, and moving out with family (and then do so), it would be a big reality check for her.
I actually think that would play into exactly what she wants and would love you to move out.
That's a fair assessment and definitely crossed my mind. I guess I have to measure that against how long I'm content to feed her cake and settle for crumbs.
