Not sure I love the tone of "can't freaking wait"...we are here to save marriages after all. Are you doing anything to become a better husband?
BL I hear what you are saying but the fact of the matter is most of these marriages can’t and shouldn’t be saved mainly because the motivations of the WS. I would rather see a LBS excited about the future than wallowing in their misery.
I completely agree with what you said above, just got the sense lately that toughtimes180 is more interested in writing off his W as a narcissist and reveling in leaving than honest self reflection. Maybe I'm off base there, but my comment was meant as a challenge to look inward and consider the areas he needs to improve...no matter what happens with the relationship.
toughtimes180,
Originally Posted by toughtimes180
It's about a better TT180 as a person and TT180 as a better father.
What are you doing to be a better person and father? Also...what about a better partner (for current or future people)?
Me:39 Ex-W:37 M:7 T: 9 S:6 D:3 BD/IHS/Confirm EA/PA: Feb '20 OM1 affair ends: May '20 W/OM2 & moves out: June-July '20 W files for D: Jul20 OM2 confirmed: 9/2020 Divorced: May '21
