I feel I was a bit too strong here. All M should try to be saved as per DB principles. But sometimes you find it cannot be saved or should not by saved. That is how I see my sitch. The M cannot be saved.

Me: 47 w/ S10, D12, D3
Current T: 12; M: 11 years; BD1: 11-11-18; BD2: 22-04-22; STBXW: 41
Previous M: 4 years; Big D: 2004; XW: 48