It is once they know about it. That’s why so many of us suffered in the dark for so long - because the people who knew didn’t think it was their place to tell us, or weren’t brave enough to tell us.
It's not the responsibility of the world to insert themselves in the private business between a husband and a wife. There's something truly unseemly about that, imho.
The issue here is clear: Little G is upset that her dad is cheating on his wife. This is about little G and her dad. Truly, the wife is tangential to that. The focus needs to be on Little G and minimizing the damage to her, both short and long term.
Adults can take care of themselves.
M 20+ T25+ S ~15.5 (BD) BD 4/6/15 D 12/23/16
"Someone I loved once gave me A box full of darkness. It took me years to understand, That this too, was a gift." ~ Mary Oliver
